Just A Thought: Archive

Just A Thought

February 2011

Done spamming your dash with messages for now

Thank you so so much. I adore you all <3

scribbleoutthetruth-deactivated asked: I'm really sorry for what you are going through. You seem like an amazing person and I really hope your parents come around because it would be horrible to lose a daughter over something like that. Your sexual orientation shouldn't be what makes you, you. Try to keep happy while you can though. You obviously have a lot of people out there that have heard your story and you are going to...

oyeme asked: thanks for the icon love, cutie :)

stone-made-flesh asked: saw your video. really sad. you seem like an amazing person and you dont deserve this. just hang in there.

hiimynamesklarissa-deactivated2 asked: I don't know you.. and i found your video from a reblog from another friend...i legitimately watched your video while tears were rolling down my face...
I hope things end up great for you in the long run..and you may not know me and you may never know me i don't know, you have my full and complete support.
please never look down,smile don't frown and you are beautiful...

letsjustbreathe- asked: I have been kicked out of my house for my sexual orientation as well. I'm bi sexual, and when I told my mom she told me to get the fuck out. It was rough, but eventually she got over it, as long as I didn't 'throw it around'. It's definitely gotten better. And when I told my father, he stopped talking to me because he is extreeemely homophobic and it fucking broke my...

lets-go-lesbos asked: you keep your chin up, ok?

screwstandards-deactivated20110 asked: I know your getting flooded with asks and such but I just thought it wouldn't have been right of me to not acknowledge the fact that you seem so strong to make it through this rough spot. I wish for things to get better in your household for you and for your parents to be more accepting. Luckily I never had to deal with that with the people in my house, they're all fine with it. But...

saintqueer asked: I just wanted to say you're a lovely person. (:

-gage

catvom asked: My heart goes out to you, dear.. I was rather blessed with understanding parents. I couldn't imagine the pain you're going through, but know you're not alone, and so many people here are reaching out to you. <3 Things happen for a reason, and although it may not seem like it now, I just know things will turn out for the best.

mostfondly asked: I love you so much, you know that :) I'm always here for you, and your parents will come around eventually. You're so amazing and deserve the world and I know you're going to get it. <3

I LOVE MY STEPHYYYYY <3

homophobes can come fight me ;)

Back in a house.

Can’t even remember the last time I’ve been this tired. I’ll be sure to reply to each and every message. Thank you all so much for all of your wonderful support. I love you all

catvom asked: My heart goes out to you, dear.. I was rather blessed with understanding parents. I couldn't imagine the pain you're going through, but know you're not alone, and so many people here are reaching out to you. <3 Things happen for a reason, and although it may not seem like it now, I just know things will turn out for the best.

An update and a thanks

I don’t know how long before I can update again. My phone is dying. I’m no longer at lauryn’s and my parents said I can’t come home unless I don’t see Alex again. So right now I’m literally just sitting on the side of the road. I don’t know what to do or what’s next. Thank you all for all your kind words I couldn’t have made it this far without...

January 2011

sainthood asked: watching your video has made me angry, to say the least. angry that there are still people in this world who are so homophobic that they would kick their own daughter out of their own house. it makes me sick to my stomach. i wish so much that there was something i could do to help you in this terrible situation. i can see from all the other comments on your video that you must be a wonderful...

Anonymous asked: Here's a vague list website , I haven't looked into them so I don't know if they apply.
http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/youth/tp/Scholarships.htm

Here's one from the HRC
http://www.hrc.org/issues/youth_and_campus_activism/8644.htm

takemeouterspace asked: I just saw your video and it completely broke my heart. I know the feeling ((somewhat)) becuase I have lesbian moms but they don't accept that I'm bisexual. First off what you really need to do is get government help, food stamps, unemployment checks, just little things that can get you somewhat dependent on yourself. Community college is the cheapest to go right now, but even if...

I can't even begin

To explain how much I appreciate all of you guys. These have been the longest, scariest two days of my life, and I have no idea how I could have gotten through them without such amazing followers. All of your inboxes, you IMs, everything, just makes me smile so much. Seriously from the bottom of my heart Thank you

myheartburnstheretoo asked: Hey. I don't know you, but I saw your video. I'm going to research some stuff and get back to you soon, if you want. I hope I can help. I'm sorry that people are assholes sometimes. Lots of love coming your way from me.

passthebluntbitch asked: I saw your video and i sorta understand what you're going through. I'm not gay but my older sister is (we're really close). She came out to our parents when she was about 16. My mom didn't take it to bad but my dad was a different story. He punched my sister in the face when he found out. I was standing behind him seeing what he was doing to my other half and i couldn't...

dovunque asked: With your academic background, I'm sure you'll be able to find a bunch of scholarships that will be able to help pay for college, esp. in Florida, and if you have in-state AND Bright Futures. Inquire about student loans and things. College can be expensive, but there are plenty of students who are also paying for it, themselves. Just don't give up your education, please (:

Anonymous asked: theres never a reason that someone cant continue their education, take out loans put yourself in a shit load of debt in the end youll have a degree and itll be worth it, apply for fafsa or finacial aid, being is that you're 18 you can apply and say that you no longer live with your parents and dont have many sources of income and because of that the government should give you more money appy...

dont-be-a-dick asked: I've just seen your video and I just wanted to know hand on heart that I wish you the best in everything you do from this moment on. You truly deserve it, and I sincerely hope you are strong enough to come out of the other side of this a stronger person. I honestly do, stay who you are, it's beautiful and nothing should change that. I hope you don't see these as empty words because...

neverforget2love asked: Well I had to take out more loans, but then I made the Dean's List and when my Aunt found out she was like ok, i will help you now. I was considering going to a community college which is cheap and continuing my education till I could figure out some way to support myself. Is there any family you could go to for help?

br0sideon-deactivated20110621-d asked: You stay strong girl.
My love and support goes out to you.
<3

bemyownsavi0ur asked: Saw you're video, And had to say although i'm not 'out' I do want to say it WILL get better. Stay strong Mrs:)

neverforget2love asked: You are a beautiful girl that doesn't deserve any of what happened. I had kinda of a similar thing happen to me, my Aunt found out that I was dating a girl and pulled all funds out from me for college. My mom still loves me and I hope and pray that in time your parents will realize that you are the same girl and that you need their love and support. No girl should have to be on their own, I...

numinousconfabulation asked: I don't know you, but I just saw your video. You're beautiful, and you don't deserve this at all. Please stay strong, I hope your parents will come around and things will get better for you<3

sn3aks asked: hey, i honestly dont know what to say about your situation Steph but your being so brave and i admire you for that, everything happens for a reason, i really hope it all works out well for you because you are a really nice girl and you are so pretty. >.< always here if you need someone to talk to ♥

youractionsscreaminsecure-deact asked: Anon-
Tell me, what exactly will you do if you have a kid who grows up to be gay? Will you hate them, kick them out? Would you love them the same? Would you be disgusted by them? What if they never came out to you because they KNEW that you hated homosexuals? They would be unhappy. They would hate themselves. This is not something that you can control. God has made us this way for a REASON....

jennalovescoffee-deactivated201 asked: my love goes out to you. stay strong.
<3

the-dopehouse asked: "I’m sorry for a lot of things in my life, but I am, nor will I ever be sorry for being who I am, because frankly I know I’m quite awesome."
"...because frankly I know I'm quite awesome."
"...I know I'm quite awesome."
"...I'm quite awesome."
"...awesome."
haha

That has to...

Can't stop crying

I just want to go home…

devinjacob asked: In regards to that long rant about homosexuals wanting attention:

According to Aristophanes in Plato's Symposium, in the ancient world of myth there were three types of people. People weren't just male or female, but one of three types: male/male, male/female, or female/female. In other words, each person was made out of the components of two people. Everyone was happy...

jackelliott-deactivated20110425 asked: Hey love, I wouldn't take anything that wordy anon said to heart, he/she just copies and pastes the same tirade in any open LGBTQI ask box they can find.

Let's just take this time to be grateful that we are the ones capable of love and all those necessary traits it takes to raise children, support loving relationships, relate to our fellow humans, and so forth, rather...

devinjacob: ellosteph: The most important video I’ve ever made. Please watch I’m sorry guys, but I don’t think I can answer the question and answers video today. Watch this and I’m sure you’ll all understand why. Lots of love -Steph REBLOGGING AGAIN BECAUSE I FUCKING LOVE THIS GIRL AND NOBODY SHOULD EVER HAVE TO DEAL WITH SOMETHING LIKE THIS, ESPECIALLY SOMEONE AS NICE, LOVING AND CARING...

Answered all the questions in my ask box from...

Anonymous asked: I am sorry to inform you that your gay experiment won't have a future. Please try to understand this. It was fun for a while, like watching weird looking animals in a zoo, but only as long as you were hiding and not showing your affection to the same sex in public. Years ago, homosexuality was merely the base for novels or movies. But now that you are demanding equal rights, we straight...

fairyfighter asked: I just saw your video and I just wanna tell you how sorry I am for you. Well I don't really know you, I don't even follow you by now but you seem like a very nice and beautiful girl and I really hope you get through this. I'm sure you will find a way to go to college! So I wish you the best of every good thing I can think of.

(Excuse my crappy English, I'm...

nerdylime asked: keep ya up brah!